I can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel!!

Oh help me stay strong…some of you may remember my story. My son (now 21) involved with Quixtar for over 3 1/2 years now. Alienating everyone including us. Spending hundreds maybe thousands of dollars on WWDB, his AMO of choice, so where can i borrow money?! He is so brain washed I can’t believe it! He now lives on his own, works full time and still doesn’t have a nickel to his name. Well, we had another run in tonight because I wouldn’t give him money. He has overdrawn his bank account again, bounced a bunch of checks. But he has lots of special oxygenated water to drink (the newest Quixtar fad). I wish I could get through to him. I wish I could stop screaming at him! Why is it taking so long for him to get it?