I think Paine has a very good point here

If you used the analogy of a heavy drinker going into an AA meeting just to `check it out’ and hopefully convince themselves that they do not have a problem, how would the counselor and forum handle it? I would expect that the drinker would likely begin to argue his/her cause and try to convince the forum that although THEY have a problem HE/SHE doesn’t. I wouldn’t think that the forum would begin to belittle, deride or be abusive to the drinker. On the other hand if after a couple of meetings the drinker turns out to be a salesperson for a Vodka distillery and is trying to convince the forum that his/her product is non-addictive and therefore safe for the forum I would think he/she would be expelled from the forum. Paine is right. We should be more patient and gentle with the drones (but always on guard for motives) because most of us here have already walked in those shoes.
Maybe we should save our outrage and loathing for those that really deserve it. Those at the top of these pyramids who are destroying lives and families.