Here’s a PW rule of thumb. Take it for what you can:

If I allow a borderline pro-MLM post into the group, the odds are good that I believe something good can come of a serious discussion about its content. Not about the author of the post but the CONTENT of the post.


What do we want the purpose of this club to be? Do we want it to be a haven for people who endured the MLM experience and are now trying to deal with the thoughts they believed to be true, only to find out they were manipulated and abused? Or do we want to keep it closed to anyone who doesn’t think as we do right now, even if they might come around later?

The answers to these questions are important, as they denote, at least to me, how long this blog will be necessary. Carrie didn’t start anything. She simply behaved in a way that is consistent with MLM teaching. Now I don’t know how much credibility we can salvage with her or other MLMers who may be harboring doubts and come here for help.

We need more patience, I believe. A lot more. I spend a fair amount of time deciding how to handle posts that come into the moderator’s queue – whether to delete or allow posts, whether or not to communicate with MLMers who sound sincere but have violated our rules by posting links to their MLMs along with glowing words about their opportunity, whether or not to allow members to post without moderation or be removed and banned from the forum.

I’m not sure where to begin with the way this conversation has progressed

I’m going to state some opinions of mine, hopefully avoiding any offense, and see if we can find a new perspective:

We suspect, but don’t know FOR SURE, that this Carrie is the same one involved in MLM. The signs are there, but it’s not a sure thing.

But EVEN IF SHE IS, I think we may be causing more harm than good in handling her the way this forum has, at least in this case.

Okay, so let’s make an assumption: This IS the same Carrie. She’s involved in MLM and for some reason didn’t want to reveal that in her recent first post.

How many of us hid our MLM connections when we were out recruiting for our businesses? How many of us suspected that there may be something wrong, if not with the MLM model itself, then with the general perception of MLM, and hid that part of it while promoting our products or our opportunity?

In many cases, it’s even TAUGHT that way: “Don’t tell your prospects too quickly what it is, since they’re likely to have ill-conceived notions about it.”

So Carrie comes in here asking questions that are, superficially, innocent, but at the same time, could lead to answers that may cause doubts about the legitimacy of MLM. But the way she was treated, I doubt she’ll believe anything we say or come back when she finally is convinced of the false promise of MLM and quits.

Her “trolling” behavior is TAUGHT by MLM leaders, and we just offered concrete evidence of being “bitter losers.”

Guys, we can do a lot better. But to do that, we need to rely on our experience and knowledge, and not so much on knee-jerk emotions.

There was no implied response or directive in the post

I think it should be worthy of mention here when significant A/Q leaders pass.

You wouldn’t want this board to ignore it if Yager or Britt or Winters of many of the other leaders passed on. We’ve had SO many “Whatever happened to…” posts here, that this obit satisfies a curiosity that we know exists here.

You may want to notice that other than your question (comment?), there’s been no response to the obituary. People here just don’t have that much to say about Halsey. And I think that’s the way you’d prefer it.

I can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel!!

Oh help me stay strong…some of you may remember my story. My son (now 21) involved with Quixtar for over 3 1/2 years now. Alienating everyone including us. Spending hundreds maybe thousands of dollars on WWDB, his AMO of choice, so where can i borrow money?! He is so brain washed I can’t believe it! He now lives on his own, works full time and still doesn’t have a nickel to his name. Well, we had another run in tonight because I wouldn’t give him money. He has overdrawn his bank account again, bounced a bunch of checks. But he has lots of special oxygenated water to drink (the newest Quixtar fad). I wish I could get through to him. I wish I could stop screaming at him! Why is it taking so long for him to get it?

I never said any of that

I am not here to recuit. I am just here to get the other side of the story. On any issue, there are those that are for and those that are against. I have been listening to those that are for MLM’s and wanted to here from those who are against MLM’s. I did not come here to change anyones opinion, as if that could happen anyway. I also did not say that I have found one that works. I have made a little money in the one I am in, but only time will tell if I make anymore.
While, I do disagree that all MLM’s are bad, I am not here to convince anyone of that.
For example, I did not know that Avon was considered an MLM. My wife is an Avon rep. She has been for 3 years. She has not one time recruited anyone else to sell Avon. She signed up to sell Avon because she used their products regularly, and here Avon lady moved out of state. She does not make a lot of money at it, (partly because she buys a lot of product for her personal use).
This is the reason I did not want to say which MLM I work. I knew I would be accused of attempting to recruit.

Well, perhaps you need to look at it a different way

Why use an MLM structure? It offers no benefits at all in terms of distribution of course – you “reps” aint involved in any of that, all you doing is sign people up for a utility. Why not just have it as a straight commission basis? Why have people pay a joining fee?
Why have them pay for a “web site” ? This makes no sense at all.

An MLM structure only favors those who are closer to the top – it does not serve your average “rep”. In fact your average rep pays off those above im with his joining fee and then pays every month by sharing the bulk of the profit from the customer with those above him. In fact the return to the salesman for the direct customer is what? 25c? The rest of the profit goes up the food chain.

Only someone who does not understand supply chain management would ever think that this is good way to operate. It is not.

As Hal is fond of pointing out – the only function for the bottom of the pyramid in these schemes is to funnel money up the chain.

Only a complete fool would somehow believe that increasing the amount of middlemen in a chain is somehow going to result in everyone making money.

It won’t.

And, if you get the figures from Ignite you will find exactly that.

Methinks you will have to do a better job at convincing us

Reading your reply *screams* that you are making it up. You seem to forget that we see a lot of Waynes on this list, who write the same sort of emails. It must be something that you MLM trains you in….

Why is that you have joined this forum? To tell us that you have a MLM that “works”? Or just to convince yourself that you have done the right thing….

The general advice of the forum is “Don’t do MLM”. If you wish to argue this with us, I’m sure there are plenty of other forums for you to recruit on…

I’m glad you had time to look into all this

I didn’t feel like going too deep in this one (like I said, just not the time to take care of it right now) It did get me to thinking of a possible way one may market a service if it is intended as a low level income for those involved that might work, and I was thinking they might be doing that.

If it’s a true MLM, though, they won’t go Chapter Eleven. They’ll just find a way to milk the lower level for more income.

I wasn’t going to go into the full story on that, but it is true. They set a fair price and felt it was dishonest to give one person one price and another person another price, so they’d stick to the stated price.
At first people hated it, since they couldn’t dicker and felt cheated, but then after a while they realized they would never go in and pay one price and later hear of someone else paying less, and people began to like that kind of dependability.

I missed this — I *must* have been half asleep when I read his post. I don’t even remember reading that. I definitely would have had something to say about it if I had read it.

I think he’s dealing with front-loading, where they want him to make money up front so he stays in longer. I don’t think he’s lying — at least not consciously, but I’ll remind everyone: You haven’t made the money until you’ve cashed the check and it’s in your pocket — and even then, sometimes, the check can still bounce and you’ll need to cover it. I’ve had it happen and I’m sure anyone who has run a business has seen it at least once.

Good luck

The whole premise of MLM is that a few will make tons of money off the many. It is designed to work against the average person. If it were really so easy to make money from it, then everyone who signed up for an MLM company would be rolling in cash. The reality is that most people never make any real money from it. The scheme is to get as many contacts out of the person before they throw in the towel.

I was involved in ACN for about 4 years. I worked hard. I went to every weekly, monthly and quarterly training session. I sponsored people into the business and got down a few levels. My monthly residual check even got close to $100. I made some bonuses but I figure I spent about 4 times as much as I made.

The people who make it big have shark personalities and they make it big by feeding off the rest of us.

Im just wondering

At all of the presentations they say how much they’ve made and what they are worth etc etc and always say exactly how I or anyone can get there. But is it really possible without knowing a bunch of people that are already into the same thing?

Is the general public looking for and would listen to little ole me?
I’ve looked into primerica and another one called ACN and doing one called TBA. The thing that strikes me as funny and interesting is that with tba my “sponsor” has called me every month “reminding” me to do the monthly payment. And i mean calls about 5 or 6 times reminding me. So that threw up some red flags with me.

Any thoughts ideas comments?